This is for everyone who has lived through years of childhood sexual, emotional and physical abuse. You are all Survivors and Warriors.
Tag: quotes
Mom – Narcissistic Abuse
Quote: Every day with Chronic Pain
Narcissistic Parenting – From the ‘roots’ up
I learned this bit of wisdom from my therapist during one of our many sessions discussing my narcissistic mother. She explained it very clearly how a parent has children (plants); she waters some and helps them grow and flourish, yet the others who aren’t so lucky receive less attention and ignored. I now understood how my mother cared and treated my brother vs. myself. Do any of you feel this way?
(This was very popular when first posted in April/2017, being one of the favorite quotes I wrote about narcissistic mothers.)
Quote ~ Breathe
Quote – PTSD – Narcissistic abuse from mom
NARCISSISTIC MATERNAL ABUSE
I wrote this quote referring to my narcissistic mother. She fails to recall the days of ignoring me, criticizing or showing no empathy, nor caring about me the way a mother should. Her emotional abuse has had an enormous impact on my life, and I remain in psychotherapy to this day.
Now she is elderly, feels isolated and displays signs of illness questioning “Why don’t you ever visit or come over for lunch because it’s lonely every day in this apartment?”. Hmmm, I wonder why? Typical narcissist, not recognizing their own personality.
I finally went NO CONTACT three years ago as I was tired of her never-ending abuse. Best decision I ever made.
Quote ~ PTSD and The Broken Soul
CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE – BROKEN TRUST
Quote: I learned from the “old me”
Wasted Years
Depression ~ “Just get over it?”
Mental Illness Stigma Awareness
PTSD Quote ~ Emotional Abuse
Stigma Quote
I had to write this quote as it reminded me of a relative who visited me in the hospital. Perhaps she assumed I lost my marbles along with the depression? Perfect example of stigma.
Quote for today
Quote for Friday
Quote: Do you understand Chronic Pain?
The Narcissistic Mother
This describes my mother well.
PTSD – Only Wishes
Quote – Fighting a battle with chronic pain
Did you know that Friendship can ruin Therapy?
The therapist I worked with for seven years was amazing, we dealt with some extremely emotional issues including PTSD sexual abuse and maternal narcissism. She validated my feelings and showed the kind of empathy that I’d never received as a child, therefore, I often craved her as a friend while in therapy. I soon understood boundaries, and realized it just wouldn’t work; therapy isn’t friendship.
A friend told me of an occurrence where friendship ruined the relationship with her and her therapist. She had been meeting “X” every 3 weeks for roughly 2 years, drudging through many agonizing, uncomfortable, personal issues and trusted “X” entirely with what she disclosed, more than with any other therapist.
When she was pregnant with her second child, also experiencing difficulties with her spouse, “X” was there to convey her thoughts to. By the time the baby was to arrive, they worked through marital issues, which alleviated the situation at home and for her.
Continue reading Did you know that Friendship can ruin Therapy?
Quote – Sometimes the pain is too much
Mental Illness Stigma
You are Forever Beautiful
This is one of my favorite quotes. Wish we could all tell each other that.
You are all amazing survivors and warriors!
Sunday Quote
Painful Body – Quote
This describes my week of migraines. You know you have horrific migraines when it hurts too much to wash your hair!
Can others relate to this?
Quote – Motivate & Inspire
Quote for Sunday
Be Proud
Quote for today
Quote – Narcissistic Mothers
Healing Wounds
Unloved daughters of Narcissistic mothers
Questioning pain
Chronic Pain slows you down
Quote ~ Listen
Today’s Quote
PTSD ~ Friday’s Quote
Don’t you just love the “just let it go” people? Such a simple solution for THEM.
Friendship Ruined Therapy
The therapist I have been working with for over five years has been amazing, we’ve dealt with some extremely emotional issues including PTSD sexual abuse and maternal narcissism. She validated my feelings and showed the kind of empathy that I’d never received as a child, therefore, I’ve often craved her as a friend. I soon understood boundaries, and realized it just wouldn’t work; therapy isn’t friendship.
A friend told me of an occurrence where friendship ruined the relationship with her and her therapist. She had been meeting X every 3 weeks for roughly 2 years, drudging through many agonizing, uncomfortable, personal issues and trusted X entirely with what she disclosed, more than with any other therapist.
When she was pregnant with her second child, also experiencing difficulties with her spouse, X was there to convey her thoughts to. By the time the baby was to arrive, they worked through marital issues, which alleviated the situation at home and for her.
After the baby was born, she didn’t see X for several months, however, she did phone her to shout with joy that it was a baby girl, and X exclaimed “hooray!” She was ‘on the fence’ about sending baby pictures, yet she did send a few via e-mail in the end and X asked to see more.
Narcissism ~~ Dear Mom, are you listening…
For my Narcissistic mother.
It’s been two years since I’ve cut off ties with her, and although she treated me like crap, I still miss having a ‘mother‘. In therapy, I’m working on the impact of how living as a daughter of a narcissist has affected my life.
Trust has been a huge problem for most of my life, starting in childhood. Firstly trust was broken by the neighbor who sexually abused me, followed by both parents who refused to believe, thus making me apologize. Learning to earn trust again with adults has taken years, mostly through therapy, after all, trust must be earned.
— Deb
My Description of Depression
“Depression, best known of all the mental illnesses, is difficult to endure and treat. It renders one feeling hopeless and helpless. Experiencing a sort of wintry solitude, one is completely immobilized with any light of optimism dimming. It creates emotional and financial fallout, coupled with a horrible emptiness and black death-like existence. Life tastes sour”. – Deb – Living in Stigma
